Mr. Dating Coach

Meet the team

About us

At MrDatingCoach, we are dedicated to helping men transform their dating lives by building confidence, improving social skills, and mastering modern dating techniques. Our mission is to provide personalized coaching that empowers men to become their best selves in relationships and life. Led by our expert dating coaches, Jesse Steele and Brandon Hayes, we have created a dynamic, results-driven approach to help you succeed, whether you're navigating online dating or looking for a meaningful, long-term relationship.

our values

We focus on authenticity, emotional intelligence, and sustainable success.e believe that genuine confidence and self-awareness are the cornerstones of a successful dating life. We reject manipulative dating tactics and focus instead on empowering men to be their authentic selves.

Our Founders

MEET THE
Coaches

Jesse Steele

Co-Founder & Lead Coach

Jesse Steele: Co-Founder & Head Coach

Jesse Steele has been a driving force in the personal development and dating coaching space for over a decade. His journey began when he saw many of his now clients being deceived by false internet “gurus.” Through determination and an insatiable curiosity about human behavior, Jesse set out to help other men overcome the struggles they face the RIGHT way without any manipulative gimmicks. 

Jesse is known for his authentic, no-nonsense approach to dating. Unlike many other coaches who rely on manipulative tactics and gimmicks, Jesse emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, authenticity, and emotional intelligence. His coaching philosophy revolves around helping men build genuine confidence, which naturally translates into better success with women and deeper, more meaningful relationships.

With a focus on long-term personal growth, Jesse has coached hundreds of men, helping them navigate everything from online dating to mastering in-person interactions. His clients frequently credit him with helping them not only improve their dating lives but also gain clarity in their personal and professional lives.

Jesse’s Core Beliefs:

  • Authenticity Over Manipulation: Jesse firmly believes that true confidence comes from within. His coaching is focused on building men’s self-esteem and guiding them to be their best, authentic selves.
  • Emotional Intelligence is Key: In today’s dating landscape, emotional intelligence is often overlooked. Jesse emphasizes the importance of understanding emotions—both your own and those of the women you date.
  • Practical, Real-World Strategies: Jesse’s coaching is rooted in real-world experiences. He uses practical examples and actionable advice to help clients apply what they learn in everyday situations.

Jesse’s approach to dating coaching has been featured in numerous workshops and seminars, and his success stories speak for themselves. From helping men regain confidence after a breakup to coaching them through the process of finding long-term partners, Jesse’s commitment to his clients is unparalleled.

Brandon Hayes

Co-Founder & Lead Coach

Brandon Hayes: Co-Founder & Lead Coach

Brandon Hayes is another core pillar of MrDatingCoach. With over 15 years of experience in the dating and personal development industry, Brandon is known for his holistic coaching approach. His expertise isn’t just about dating—he’s dedicated to helping men improve every aspect of their lives, from their careers and health to their mental well-being and personal fulfillment.

Brandon’s journey into dating coaching began after observing how many men struggled not only with dating but also with self-confidence, direction, and clarity in life. With a background in psychology and a deep understanding of human motivation, Brandon set out to create coaching methods that addressed these broader issues, while also providing men with the tools to succeed in dating.

Brandon’s Coaching Philosophy:

  • Mindset is Everything: Brandon firmly believes that a man’s mindset is the foundation of his success in dating and in life. His coaching programs focus heavily on developing a growth mindset, positive thinking, and resilience.
  • Lifestyle Integration: Unlike quick-fix dating tips, Brandon’s methods are designed to integrate seamlessly into a man’s life. He coaches men to build habits that promote both success with women and a balanced, fulfilling life overall.
  • Sustainable Success: Brandon isn’t interested in helping clients with short-term dating wins. Instead, he focuses on sustainable, long-term success that leads to meaningful relationships. His clients often note that his coaching impacts not only their dating lives but also their overall happiness and sense of purpose.

Brandon’s clients have included men from all walks of life, from those just starting their dating journey to professionals seeking deeper, more meaningful connections. He’s coached entrepreneurs, executives, and everyday men to improve their social lives and achieve true fulfillment.